Are You Constantly Looking for Recognition From Others?

So many of us look outside of ourselves for appraisal and approval from others, I would go as far as to say, we all do.

Who doesn’t enjoy being told, well done, good job, “Wow Darling you’re amazing”, I know I do because it feels good.

However, looking outside of ourselves for kind words of affirmation is lowering the odds on the amount of actual time you are going to be rewarded.

Your OWN voice on the other hand is the one that you hear the most, it’s always there chatting away with thoughts, stories, and judgments. This is the very reason why its important to be aware of the content of your thoughts and the words that only YOU yourself hear deep, within.

When you learn to be your own biggest supporter, chief cheerleader of your own Team Self, you can learn to give yourself a break when things don’t go the way you planned, you can learn to cheer yourself up when you’re feeling down, and reward yourself with kindness when you’ve giving life your best efforts.

Also a good idea to consider, why it matters so much what people think, making yourself feel proud, is the BEST.